Safety & discretion
The catastrophe is exposure — never the arrangement. So discretion isn’t a feature here; it’s the architecture.
Trust, safety and consent are the product — not add-ons. Verification, blocking, reporting and panic-hide are always free and always available. Nothing about staying safe is ever behind a paywall.
How White Rabbit protects you
Verified, 18+ only
Every account passes an age check before entering, and a brass seal marks verified humans. Robust age assurance is a hard requirement, not a setting.
Data minimisation & genuine deletion
We store as little as possible and mean it when you delete. A partner’s identity is never stored at all.
Locked photo vaults
Private photos sit behind a brass keyhole and unlock one viewer at a time — only the people you choose, only when you choose.
Content-free notifications
Alerts never reveal who messaged or what they said. A glance at your screen gives nothing away.
Pre-emptive identity blocking
Block specific people before they ever find you. We match against a salted hash — we never hold the raw details you enter.
Panic-hide & discreet mode
Leave instantly to a neutral decoy screen, and run the whole app in a quieter, lower-profile state whenever you need it.
Consent-first by design
You can’t be messaged out of the blue. Connection begins with a structured request, and a conversation opens only when both sides agree. Photos stay locked until you explicitly grant access. Consent is the default state, not something you have to switch on. See how it works →
Built for those with the most to protect
Married and non-monogamous members often carry the highest exposure risk, so the discretion controls are designed around them: a partner’s identity is never stored, pre-emptive blocking lets you hide from specific people, and discreet mode keeps your presence quiet. See who it’s for →
Safety is always free
We monetise discretion, reach and power — never safety. There’s one price for everyone, no gender-based pricing, and no pay-per-message. The features that keep you safe stay free for every member, always. Read the FAQ →
Staying safe beyond the app
Product design only goes so far. Our free Online Safety Guide covers the rest — meeting someone safely, spotting scams and catfish, sextortion, and what to do if something goes wrong. It’s written to help whichever platform you use.
Now open
Join White Rabbit
Passwordless sign-up, a quick 18+ check, and verification and safety that are always free. For adults 18+ only.
We’ve only just opened. Every profile is a real, age-checked person — we never create fake ones — so the community is small for now and grows with every person you bring. Share it with people you trust.